Episode 64
Cancel Culture with Ashley Maland: Her Story
In this episode of the Embodied Millions Podcast, I am thrilled to have a courageous conversation with Ashley Taylor Maland, a social media figure and advocate for self-love and healing. Ashley has bravely shared her journey of vulnerability, navigating issues of domestic violence and the complexities of personal growth, especially in the digital age where scrutiny can be merciless.
Ashley opens up about her initial experiences on social media, expressing that she never intended to become a public figure but turned to TikTok to document her own healing post-divorce. Her heartfelt videos began as a way to encourage herself during a personal crisis, eventually resonating with a vast audience as she candidly shared her struggles and insights. The conversation pivots around a recent incident that has sparked significant backlash against Ashley, where a so-called "influencer vigilante" attempted to call her out for perceived inconsistencies in her message and her personal depiction online.
What unfolded was a barrage of negative comments and personal attacks as well as a flood of messages accusing her of being inauthentic and fraudulent. She reflects on the importance of self-acceptance and honesty in her journey, recognizing that her imperfections are a natural part of being human. The discussion delves into the implications of social media bullying, particularly focusing on the culture of shame and criticism that disproportionately affects women.
As we explore the themes of self-expression and accountability, Ashley emphasizes the need for women to connect to their inner strength and embrace their authenticity, even in the face of external judgment. Her resilience shines through as she articulates the necessity of building a safe space within oneself, emphasizing that confidence and self-belief are crucial in navigating negativity and criticism.
Toward the end of our conversation, Ashley offers poignant advice to listeners, urging them to acknowledge their pain and imperfections while continuing to move forward on their healing journeys. She eloquently reminds us that it is perfectly okay to make mistakes; what matters is the commitment to growth and the intention behind our actions.
HIGHTLIGHTS:
6:01 Ashley’s Journey to Self-Discovery
14:14 The Impact of Social Media Criticism
26:00 Encouragement for Women to Speak Up
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